Enduring the anguish of betrayal and sexual disloyalty ruptures the sacred bond of coupleship. Devoting time and energy to mend the wounds and sorrow demands a daily dedication; the outcome of this steadfastness is the revitalization and rebuilding of trust.

Renewed Restored is here to support you along your road of healing with the following:

  • 1:1 Couples coaching for those in relational repair after sexual integrity issues & partner betrayal

  • Healing Hearts Course (partnership with Choose Recovery Services)

  • Healing Heart Digital Course (Coming Soon)

Renewed Restored Couples strongly emphasize establishing the essential foundation of safety and stabilization. The partner who betrayed actively strives to lead a life of integrity, enriched with empathy, to break free from unhealthy patterns.

We equip you with vital relational abilities encompassing effective communication, emotional awareness, and empathy. We recommend a tried-and-true approach to building empathy skills, following the ERCEM method, to rekindle the connection.

At Renewed Restored, we are committed to advocating for both partners, ensuring that each individual is informed about resources that will contribute to their healing journey.

Renewed Restored Couples

Many couples find themselves searching for a path towards reconciliation and the restoration of their relationship after betrayal, only to discover that there isn't a universally "best route" available to them. Despite trying various strategies and, in some cases, investing years in seeking help, they often feel stuck. Some approaches have included focusing on individual recovery for extended periods, but this typically doesn't lead to a renewed and restored relationship after betrayal.

Renewed Restored Couples takes a proven approach, one that fosters a more remarkable and healthy outcome by guiding couples on a healing journey together.

In the past, the approach to addressing sexual integrity issues often advised individuals to focus solely on their recovery. This meant that the partner trying to cope with the trauma was left to navigate it alone, with limited access to healing resources related to the impact of their significant other's behaviors and choices. In the end, as the person with the issue achieved long-term sobriety, recovery efforts concentrated solely on that aspect, and ways for the patner to support recovery. Unfortunately, this approach sometimes led to the partner being mislabeled as a "co-addict" or "co-dependent," leaving them without a support system or resources to address the complexities and wounds they experienced. As a couple, they didn't have the opportunity to collectively procesto process the numerous losses they had endured collectivelyer trauma is crucial for moving forward in a healing manner.

Many couples in the aftermath of sexual integrity issues often struggle to find effective help. Traditional approaches sometimes prioritize addressing past traumas and relational issues before dealing with the immediate wounds caused by betrayal, leading to added complexities.

Alternatively, some opt ONLY for separate recovery paths, with one partner focusing on sobriety and recovery while the other addresses personal needs and healing. However, this approach can create a disconnect when they reunite as a couple.

Research suggests that couples healing together often experience more significant growth. Both sexual integrity issues and partner betrayal are rooted in attachment-based traumas. Building authentic connections with God, oneself, and each other through transparency and empathy can lead to individual and relational healing.

Renewed Restored Couples coaching provides structured support, enabling couples to establish safety, empathy, and truth. They can progress through healing stages together, increasing their chances of success in rebuilding their attachment relationship.

It's crucial to understand that partner betrayal can trigger traumatic distress, with recurring thoughts attempting to make sense of the situation.

At Renewed Restored, we navigate the three stages of trauma recovery. If both partners are willing, a couple's plan is developed for those working towards reconciliation. However, we also acknowledge that not all marriages can continue.

We've witnessed remarkable transformations in marriages, healing and renewing after betrayal from sexual integrity issues. Our approach focuses on relational capacity, authenticity, and connection, providing a tailored roadmap for potential success.